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Gaming is playing any video games on gaming consoles, computers, or your phone or iPad. It’s fun, and lots of children find it a great way to relax and connect with friends. But it can become a problem. Excessive gaming can lead to a person neglecting other important parts of their life like school, family and friends. Read more to find out when gaming might be a problem, and how to help ensure you keep a healthy balance in your life!  

Gaming can be a good way to relax and have fun. But it is important to know that gaming can sometimes become an addiction. 

What is Gaming? 

Lots of young people play games for entertainment and fun. You can play online games on computers and consoles, websites and mobile apps. There are many types of online games. There are games that you can play on your own and games that you can play with one other player, or many other players, who you may or may not know offline.  

On some online games you can talk to people through the game itself or through a chat site or gaming forum. You can talk through instant messenger, or on a video chat or headset chat. Some young people also like to watch other gamers playing on live-streaming sites. 

What is Addiction? 

An addiction is a behaviour that becomes hard to control, even though there are often negative consequences like money problems or arguments with family and friends. A person who is addicted has a strong urge to do the thing they are addicted to and might even feel like it is taking over their life. 

Types of Gaming Addictions 

Gaming addictions can take different forms. Someone may become addicted to playing online games alone, or with friends. You can play at home or in arcades or amusement halls. Remember, you can only engage in gaming at an amusement hall or funfair from the age of 16. 

It is important to be aware of when you feel like you might be addicted to something, such as online gaming. Some signs of gaming addictions include: 

Interrupting Your Routine – Gaming has gotten in the way of school, homework and hobbies 

Takes Up Time – Gaming has become a big part of your life, taking up a lot of your time 

Lost Interest in Other Activities – You’ve lost interest in sports or hobbies that you used to enjoy 

Causing Problems – Your time spent gaming is causing problems with your family or friends 

Can’t Stop – It is hard to stop thinking about gaming and you like you are not able to stop playing, even when you need to sleep 

Getting Help and Support​ 

If you feel like you might have an addiction to gaming you have the right to get help and support. Talking to a trusted adult about your feelings and concerns can really help. But there are some ways that you can help yourself and take control of your addiction. Some ideas include: 

Logging Out – Set aside time for gaming and try to stick to these times. Log out when it is time to do other things like spending time with family or friends, doing homework or going to sleep. 

One Step at a Time – Stopping something that you’re addicted to can be difficult at first. Treat yourself with other things if you manage to stop your gaming addiction for a while. But try not to worry if you can’t do it straight away. Like any addiction, breaking the cycle of excessive gaming can be challenging but you can do it with help and support. 

Make a Plan – When you get tempted to game, ask yourself, what is my plan? Everyone is different, so your plan will be personal to you. But think about what you can do to distract yourself if you do get tempted. 

Take Care – Develop your hobbies and interests, especially those that involve other people. Try to do things with friends and family that do not include gaming. 

An addiction to gaming can, be replaced by activities and interests that you enjoy and have fun doing.  

If you are worried about your gaming you can contact Childline. Childline is always here to listen to you and support you. You can call Childline on 1800 66 66 66 or chat with Childline Live Chat (24 hours a day).

Key takeaways

  • There is nothing wrong with gaming. It can be a fun and relaxing hobby!
  • It’s possible to become addicted to gaming.
  • The main sign of gaming addiction is when it starts to interfere with other parts of your life
  • It’s not always easy to break a gaming addiction, but there are some simple steps above that you can take to regain control of your time and life.
  • Talking to an adult you can trust about your feelings is another great way to start to beat a gaming addiction.

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